Essential Body Language To Attract Women
body language to attract women
Today you are going to learn body language to attract women.
Recently I wrote an article called ‘Bad Ass Surgeon’ which shows the huge benefit of having good body language. You should check it out and you’ll see an example of why body language is so important.
But for those of you in a rush let’s have a little recap.
Why worry about body language?
I’s said that 90% of communication is done through body language. Therefore it’s probably the most important thing to get right in order to attract women. The good news is, this is something you can control…
You are in complete control
Body language is one of the few things that you can control 100%. You can work on your body language at home and then going out into the real world and put it into action.
It doesn’t matter what a girl says to you or how she reacts physically, nothing can affect how you hold your body position.
You become more attractive to women
It instantly makes you more attractive to women. For example if you normally cross your arms then you come across shy and negative. This definitely is not attractive to women.
If however you suddenly start walking around with your arms down by your side, head up, relaxed arms and shoulders, etc you suddenly look confident and commanding and this definitely is attractive to women. Therefore confident body language is very important.
You feel better yourself
Knowing that the way you are walking and holding yourself is making you more attractive to women should and will give you a big boost.
Every guy wants to come across more attractive and if you know that you are achieving this then you will feel better about yourself. If you feel better about yourself then you will be more confident in talking to and attracting women.
Body language to attract women
Now you know why it’s so important to have good body language, it’s time to have a look at a couple of key factors that you need to incorporate into your new positive body language. Remember there are no body language secrets, just basic things that you should do to attract women.
Let’s look at how to attract women using body language…
Posture
You need to make sure your posture is positive. Walking around with your hands in your pockets, head down and shoulders slumped is very bad. It makes you come across shy and defensive.
Therefore you need to stand tall, shoulders relaxed and arms down by your sides. Have your head held high and keep you eye line as though you are looking into the horizon. This portrays a confident person who is open and therefore approachable. This will definitely help women feel comfortable when you approach them.
Movement
Try to make sure your movements are smooth and controlled. If someone gets nervous say in a job interview they become fidgety and jerky. They tap their fingers or fiddle with their nails, etc. These are the most basic signs of nerves.
If you approach a girl and you are fiddling and moving uncomfortably then she is going to find this off-putting. Therefore you need to make sure that you control your nervous and make sure that you move with ease and fluid actions. Good positive body language is key.
Also don’t fidget when talking to a girl cos that will automatically make her think you are nervous and uncomfortable talking to her. Not very attractive at all.
Lean back and relax
When you start talking to a girl you need to take into account her personal space. Someone who gets in really close and invades this space too early will make a girl feel uncomfortable. Also leaning in makes you look like you are not relaxed and comfortable.
Therefore make sure you sit back relax and talk in a comfortable manner. If you feel the need to lean in because she is struggling to hear you then let her come to you. This is also a good test to see if she is interested enough and comfortable enough to lean in close and speak to you.
Stay open
When you are talking to a girl, whether that be standing up or sitting down, you need to remain open and welcoming. For example standing or sitting with your arms crossed can be seen as defensive behaviour.
This shows that you are not confident in your current situation. A woman will pick up on little things like this and it will be a massive turn off for her. This is the sort of body language that will kill attraction.
Therefore when you sit down, make sure you are relaxed. Don’t cross your arms or your legs and stand or sit comfortably.
Final thought
There you have it, the most important body language to attract women. Like I said earlier, 90% of communication is done through body language. Therefore making sure that you have great body language is very important indeed.
As you can work on it where ever you are, I suggest you do exactly that. Work on it before you start approaching girls. Maybe video yourself and then compare it to guys who are successful with women. This can help a lot.
Once you feel comfortable then give it a go in the real world. If you need help attracting women then check out: How to attract girls. You will find some great tips to attract women.
Catch you laters,
Preston Blain
via Essential Body Language To Attract Women | David Black Social Masters Blog.
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